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Life
Signs: Contemporary without Compromise

“We’ve got
something so good! We’re gonna show you. Stand in His light,
you’ll see It’s gonna shine through; open your heart it’s real and
waiting for you…” Point of Grace lyrics from “Something So Good”
Doing for
Others
Matthew
25:35-36, 40 (New International Version)
"For I was hungry and you gave Me
something to eat, I was thirsty and you gave Me something to drink,
I was a stranger and you invited Me in, I needed clothes and you
clothed Me, I was sick and you looked after Me, I was in prison and
you came to visit Me.'
"The King will reply, 'I tell you the
truth, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers of
Mine, you did for Me.'
Whoa, that is
impressive and exciting all in one! When you do something for
someone without asking for anything in return; how does it make you
feel? Do you hope that the person will see a need elsewhere and do
the same thing? How we treat others in the grocery store, at
school, or even on the road, for example says a lot about our
Christian maturity. To be more specific, it shows our own security
in being Christlike. When we are secure in Christ, we do not feel
threatened by the outside world or have to do what everyone is
doing. Instead, the outside world is part of the Christian mission
field.
When we treat
someone with love, it is as though we are loving Christ, Himself.
This can be an act of worship. Think of anyone who offends you in
some way (Christian or not), pray for them. Pray that God will give
you a heart of love. In addition, you can demonstrate your concern
for them. Pray that the Lord will give you opportunities to do
things for Him by acts of kindness toward ‘the least of these.’
1 Corinthians
13 (New International Version) Love
“If I speak in the tongues of men and of
angels, but have not love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging
cymbal. If I have the gift of prophecy and can
fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that
can move mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. If I give all
I possess to the poor and surrender my body to the flames, but have
not love, I gain nothing.
Love is patient, love is kind. It does
not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It
is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it
keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight
in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always
protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
Love never fails. But where there are
prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be
stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. For
we know in part and we prophesy in part, but when
perfection comes, the imperfect disappears. When I was a child, I
talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a
child. When I became a man, I put childish ways behind me.
Now we see but a poor reflection as in a mirror; then we
shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know
fully, even as I am fully known.
And now these three remain: faith, hope
and love. But the greatest of these is love.”
Types of Love
1)
Eros - known as "erotic love". It is based on strong feelings
toward another. It usually occurs in the first stages of a man-woman
"romantic" relationship.
This love is based more on physical traits. Say a person says he has
"fallen in love" with a woman, because "she looked like an angel"
Then again a woman "falls in love" with a guy because he is
intelligent, and a good head on his shoulders.
Two people feel this strong emotional attraction towards one
another, though they barely really know about each other's
personalities. A person usually puts her/his best foot forward,
showing only her/his good side. In order to be sure if "true love"
exists, two people must know and accept each others' good and bad
traits.
The romantic feeling common in "eros love" is natural, and an
important part of a relationship between a man and a woman. Romance
also plays a role in strengthening the bonds, especially at the
start of a relationship. This is all part of God's plan.
What we need to be careful of is assuming a relationship must be
"real love" just because it is romantic, because all we feel is
happiness. As with most things in life, we should learn to use our
hearts and minds to judge if something is real.
You must love a person for her/his uniqueness, not because you
simply want to feel the joy of "being in love." Overly relying on
pure emotion without the balance of logic is a recipe for failure.
2) Philos - a love based on friendship between two people.
It is true that two lovers that start out by being friends first
before becoming partners usually are the relationships that last.
Friendship is the foundation of a successful relationship. This is
true whether it is marriage, or boyfriend-girlfriend and vise versa.
Philos love is a love based on "give-and-take", where two people
benefit each other in a mutual way. One partner is still concerned
with what she/he can take, but at the same time is also concerned
with her/his partner's benefit and therefore gives back in return.
Therefore, philos is a higher type of love than eros. Philos love
is a mutual, "give-and take" relationship, while eros love is a
self-based, form of love that is more concerned with the "self" or
self-benefit. Like eros love, philos love must develop into a
higher form of love, the highest love of all - "agape" or
unconditional love.
3) Agape - unconditional love| The third and highest type of
love is "agape", or unconditional love. This is God’s love for us.
Agape love is above both philos and eros love. It is a love that is
totally selfless, where a person gives out love to another person
even if this act does not benefit her/him in any way. Whether the
love that is given is returned or not, the person continues to love
(even without any self-benefit).
Say, you help out a person, even though that person hates you and
curses you. Or you take insults from your partner without hitting
back, all the while forgiving and praying for your partner to amend
her/his ways. Or the famed "unconditional love" that a mother has
for her child (her child will always be the most beautiful child in
the world to her, even with a face only a mother could love)!
The love we show our parents, taking care of them and helping them
in their old age, just like they took care of us when we were
young. This is done with or without benefit in return. However,
the highest type of agape love is not human at all, but divine -
God's unconditional love for us, His children.
God's love was shown to us the most when God the Father sent His one
and only Son, Jesus Christ to His suffering and death on the cross
for our salvation. There is no greater love than this. Jesus had
no obligation to die for us, but He chose to. It is His gift, His
ultimate gift.
He chose to die for us because He knew what would happen to all
mankind if He left us on our own. He did say that we are sheep.
And the shepherd lays down His life for the sheep. Without Jesus'
death on the cross, mankind is doomed to eternal damnation.
John 15:13 says, “Greater love has no one than this, that He lay
down His life for His friends.”
In
essence, eros love is "physical", philos love is "mental", and agape
love is "spiritual". Thus, it is made up of the three fundamental
elements of man: physical, mental and spiritual.
Upcoming
Events
Event:
Life Course 101
Location:
5920 Lillian Hwy. – Myrtle Grove Baptist Church (Fellowship Hall)
Event Date:
03 February 2010
Time:
5:00 – 7:00 pm
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Event:
Life Course 201 – Spiritual Gifts Inventory
Location:
5920 Lillian Hwy. – Myrtle Grove Baptist Church (Fellowship Hall)
Event
Date: 10 February 2010
Time:
4:30 – 6:00 pm
------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------Event:
Winter Jam 2010
Location:
Mobile, AL
Event Date:
12 February 2010
Time:
7:00 pm (Doors open at 6:00PM; Pre-Show approx. 6:20PM; Lights Down
approx. 6:55PM)
COST:
$10 @ Door
Featuring: Third Day, Newsboys, NewSong, Tenth Avenue
North, Fireflight, Sidewalk Prophets, Robert Pierre, Revive & Guest
Speaker Tony Nolan
For More Information: 251-460-6047 or
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Event: Faith Evangelism Training
Location: 5920 Lillian Hwy. – Myrtle Grove Baptist
Church (Fellowship Hall)
Event
Date: 19 February 2010
Time:
5:30pm Supper (Donation)|6:00pm Training|6:45pm
Visitation|8:00pm Celebration & Share Time
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Event:
Image
Location:
800 E. Nine Mile Rd. –
ATTIC at Hillcrest
Baptist Church
Event Date:
First Monday
Time:
7:30 pm
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Event:
Women’s Bible
Study Fellowship
Location:
4801 North Davis Hwy. –
East Brent
Baptist Church
Event Date:
Every Wednesday
Time:
9:00 – 11:00 am
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